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Warriors fall in, it's time for formation.
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So today, folks, on the Morning Formation podcast, I'm joined with former UCLA wide receiver, cam Brown.
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So this is kind of a fanatic moment for me because for the last eight years or so I've been a season ticket holder for the UCLA Bruins and I love college football.
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College football is coming just around the corner for us and for me, because I love the game, I go to every single local game possible.
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Today it's an absolute honor to have Cam Brown on and we're going to talk about his life, growing up in a football family to carving out his own path on the field.
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Cam has an absolute, incredible story of grit, faith and determination, and so we're driving into his football journey and the lessons he's carried into life after the game, and we're just going to talk about what he's into now, and so this is definitely an episode that I'm super excited about.
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Cam, thank you for joining me on the Morning Formation podcast.
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No, thank you for having me.
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It's an honor to be here.
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I'm here to be as transparent as possible and answer any questions and just give back.
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That's what I love about it, man.
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So I've been doing this podcast for two and a half years now and I mainly focused on mostly military content and I've kind of spanned it out, because a lot of the things that I learned in the military also translate into the civilian side and into life, and you, being a collegiate athlete and a full-time student man, that is a hard thing to juggle.
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But I want to take it back from the beginning and for those folks out there who are just meeting you for the first time and may not know your story, can you walk us through how you fell in love with football and what it's meant for you in your life?
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Oh yeah, I fell in football as early as I can remember.
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I started playing when I was four, playing flag football.
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I was always throwing the ball to myself, reenacting plays around the house.
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My dad played the NFL for 10 years, so you know it was kind of already in the family.
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But it was one of those things where I was never forced to play, it wasn't.
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He didn't just put me in it, it was something that I wanted to do from as early as I could remember.
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I was always carrying a football around.
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I was always setting up cones in the backyard, acting like I was scoring just by myself.
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That's where I really knew I loved it and you grew up in the great state of Texas.
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Right, yeah, I did Colleyville Texas.
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Was it like Friday Night Lights?
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It was.
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It's crazy out here it's a lot.
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That's the thing I started to learn as I got to college and met guys from different states Football.
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I didn't realize how big football in Texas really was.
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Even some of my family that used to come down here and visit us.
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They would see like the middle schools around here and they're like there's no, there's no way you went to middle school here, like they were saying it looks like their high school fields yeah, yeah, I've been out in the middle of new mexico, even uh, down in artesia, and they have a high school down there.
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That's uh, the city is mostly supported on the oil fields and they have like a junior college artificial turf stadium out in the middle of the desert and on Friday nights in the fall that's where everybody is.
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And I moved from Hawaii to the state of Ohio when I was around 12 years old.
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I played football in Ohio, went to a real small school out there and I would imagine it's not quite on the level of Texas but it's pretty damn close to what you guys had down there and I mean it's led to like books and movies made, so I can't even imagine how amazing that was.
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But you grew up being the son of Larry Brown, a Super Bowl MVP.
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Now how did that shape your mentality and your approach to the game overall?
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I would say it shaped it a lot for sure, um, and a lot of great ways.
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But it's hard being young cause you don't understand and a lot of people around you can't comprehend or understand either.
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So you just kind of you know a lot of stuff.
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I just had to take his word for it.
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You know, growing up, as soon as I told him that this is what I wanted to do from a young age, it didn't matter it was like okay, this is what you want to do, this is what it's going to take to get there.
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So I was having to miss stuff when I was seven years old, like going to hang out with friends, little parties going on, and I would be like mad because I would be training and doing all this extra stuff at the time.
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But it's one of those things, things and seeing how it really could put you ahead in life.
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Yeah, did you have brothers and sisters?
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I had two sisters.
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They're both older than me, so I'm the baby Wow.
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And you're the only boy too, so you had a lot of pressure, right, I did.
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So what ultimately drew you to UCLA?
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How and how would you sum up your experience overall being a Bruin for the three years you were there?
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What drew me there originally.
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So my dad's side of the family's from California, my mom's side of the family's here from Dallas, so we would always go back and forth to California.
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I played in a couple of 7-on-7 tournaments growing up that we would travel out there for too, and just every time I would go out there, my dad would always take us to UCLA and USC and for some reason there was a lot of people hyping up USC.
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They would be talking about USC back in the day, USC back in the day.
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But it was just something about UCLA's campus and it was like a breath of fresh air and from a kid I was like, yeah, I'm going here, I want to go to school here, I want to go to school here and then end up getting to go to my dream school, and the three years that I was there was.
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It was a great experience, life-changing, very eye-opening, and I would say there's no college experience like UCLA.
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It's like everything that I thought of UCLA.
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It was that and more.
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Yeah, I can tell you, I moved here, like I said, most of my teen years I was an Ohio State fan.
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I moved here to LA and I see this beautiful stadium up in Pasadena, great venue, great team.
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I mean, the thing I love about the Bruins is they're never overhyped, they always seem to be gritty and they always seem to have heart, which is what I love about football.
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It ain't about the money, it's about the heart, right, it's about the grit, it's about the underdog story, and so that's why, year after year, man, I go and I buy my season tickets and I go to every single home game, and I can totally understand what you're saying about that.
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And I can totally understand what you're saying about that.
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And during your time at UCLA, what would you say?
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What's one of your favorite memories or biggest highlights from your college football career?
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That's tough because I really I enjoyed just being around my team.
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The coaches always tell you like this is the only time in your life where you guys get to like all the stuff you guys get to do the way you guys joke around, having like built-in friends.
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Soak it up and enjoy it now, because once it's over and you get to the real world, it's like you're not around.
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You know 50 guys that you're just friends with every day.
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Just you know being stuck around them doing dumb stuff.
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So I would say really just every moment around our teammates after a game, the different experiences you get to get, like me and my friends, we we loved.
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I'm kind of I'm bougie, I don't care so we would go to like a nice rooftop dinner or just like a nice dinner after a game.
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That was just like our thing and just like that experience, like looking back on it going to like a rooftop dinner, um, being able to go to nobu, like it, just I don't know, it was just a great experience.
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Um, and being around those guys beating LSU was for sure one.
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That was a.
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That was a great moment, cause they had um shot confetti from the Rose bowl, so all the confetti coming down and that blue and gold, and that was a pretty sweet moment.
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I was there for that game, man, I was there.
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Yeah, man, I loved it, man.
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That was a big win too for you guys.
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That was huge.
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What would you say was your biggest game that you played Most pressure?
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Or would you say the biggest one that sticks out in your mind?
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There's got to be one.
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Either.
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It was an SC game.
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You guys beat the crap out of SC during those years.
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I loved it.
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We did.
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I would say Personally, like I was like Fresno State for me, because I was the first game, that was the first year I got there and I was like that was the first game that I had got.
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It got my first target.
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You know, I was out there Every game.
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I was running wide open on film, every game, like coach, like'm, like coach, I need the ball, I need the ball.
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Come on, come on.
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And my first game, I finally got my first target.
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I went for 120 yards and that's where I was like, okay, it's about to be like this every single game.
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Now I shelled them.
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So that was a great moment.
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Yeah, that was a home game.
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We ended up losing in.
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That's when they marched down the field with we went down and scored.
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Kyle Phillips had caught the we thought was the game-winning touchdown and then they get the ball.
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I want to say there was like 40 seconds left, no timeouts, and I just remember standing up and I was screaming at our DBs like they have no timeouts, they have to get out of bounds and just feeling so anxious like there's no way they're gonna go down here and there's no way they're gonna do it in 40 seconds, no timeouts, they went down there, end up scoring.
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That was like a sickening feeling I was there.
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That was a night game.
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Yeah, I was there, man.
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And, uh, man, that those fans were gnarly, I don't know what they I've never been to fresno before, but they were.
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They were unlike other fans.
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That was, I think.
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When was that?
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When Hayner played?
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Yep, it was, he had a.
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He played a great game.
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I remember that man.
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He was running around everywhere, man, yeah, I was there, man, I was there for that game.
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That's crazy, yeah, dude.
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So what's something that most people don't see about?
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You know the life living as a D1 athlete that you wish more fans would understand.
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There's no way for them to actually be able to understand.
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But I wish a lot of people would be more considerate of how hard it actually is.
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You know a lot of people.
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Just they see the dollar signs and, oh, you guys are getting your school paid for.
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You get meals like you guys are spoiled.
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You don't know what it's actually like.
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I don't want to drop their names, but there was a few guys that were walk-ons at UCLA and they ended up telling me, because it was my second year, they ended up coming on and they were like I have a totally different level of respect for football athletes Because it doesn't matter.
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Once you're a walk-on, you're doing everything that a scholarship athlete does, everything they have to do, you have to do.
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So them being on the outside thinking that it was just oh, you guys are spoiled, you guys get money, free meals and you have all this time to do what you want.
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Them actually seeing how physically and mentally draining it was and trying to uphold your academics at the same time, it ended up opening their eyes and they had a whole different perspective on it.
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So I would say, just really understanding that it's not, you're not a little spoiled brat, just having just this super great time, all the time Like it's a job and it's tough.
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Yeah, man, I tell you what, even over the years, my hat's off to student athletes.
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I mean, I can't imagine what it would be like to try to maintain my grades, my GPA, and then doing all that training the same time and make bad decisions.
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I mean, it's just, it's.
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It is grueling and crucial and I, whenever I get an opportunity to get to work with a collegiate athlete man, I definitely do, I encourage to hire them.
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You know, at at my current employment I there's not enough to be said about it, man I can't even imagine what it's like for you guys and when it, when you start training, like, let's say, after your last game.
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When does the training start up again?
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It starts up in the spring, right?
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Yeah, it starts up pretty fast.
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So depending on it depends on when your last game ends up being.
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But you usually finish in December and you start back up in January.
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Like there's very little time, like you have very little off time, so you have to really love it and learn how to enjoy it and you have to find a way to enjoy it through all the tough times.
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I would say that's that's like one of the biggest things, because every day is not going to be fun yeah, what?
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what piece of advice would you, would you give to younger athletes out there chasing that d1 dream?
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just got to believe in you.
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Really that's it.
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Nobody, your parents, nobody's going to believe in you like you do.
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All the crazy.
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Every time you see somebody make a crazy play, a crazy catch, like by them, it could be you too.
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And a lot of times I've seen it takes for people.
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There's a lot of guys who develop at different ages some young, some old and sometimes it takes for you to go against a player that everybody said was so great.
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And sometimes it may happen by accident where you beat them and that's like the eye opening moment where it's like I could do this, because nobody, nobody in their whole life, is undefeated at anything.
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If you play football, you've lost a rep, everybody's lost a rep before everybody's dropped a pass before.
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You just have to tell yourself like they're gonna lose the rep when it's your turn and that's it, instead of you know getting caught up like they have to show you.
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That's the biggest thing, because a lot of guys there's people built like Hulk, especially nowadays.
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You got, you got guys like I don't know if you like Femi Femi, now UCLA man, he came in.
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I'm like there's.
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There's no way you're this young, like there's and built like this, like there's guys that are, you know, look like they'll tear your head off.
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But then there you got to have the mindset mentality that they got.
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They have to show you they're no different than you.
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Yeah, I really think that's important as character and grit overall.
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I mean, you could be an athletic beast and not take it seriously and get away for a certain amount of time, but at the end of the, at the end of the day, the guy that's going to be working harder and has the heart and is spending more hours training is going to win.
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Every time, I think, what, what would you say?
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Uh, did you ever have a moment like that where you, where you got over on someone that was, you know, maybe a real, uh, superstar, db, and you're able to burn them and just take off and you're like, ah, I got it.
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You know what I mean?
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Like any moments like that that stand out in your mind.
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So growing up in Texas we like a lot of, a lot of like the hub of athletes, like come from Texas.
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So I played against a lot of those guys since I was young.
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So like I always give the example, like if you and your brother, if your brother, if you have a brother and he turns out to be one of the biggest celebrities on the planet, that's cool and all, but at the end of the day in your mind he's still your brother.
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You know, you still remember all the times you beat him up, you beat him in races, just in.
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You know a lot of stuff, even though the world sees them a different way to you.
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That's your brother and I would say growing up in Texas it was the same way for a lot of the competition.
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A lot of those top kids go to all the big schools.
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So for me it was just like I've been playing against him since peewee football, like he's nothing, even though the world is like, oh, this guy's a first round pick, he's a second round pick, he's the greatest thing ever.
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And that's like where the confidence piece comes in.
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It's all about how you perceive somebody, because some people they say a lot of people your confidence in yourself could scare other people.
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That's true.
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I've seen a lot of guys that are so confident in themselves.
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It put fear in other athletes, even when the person actually wasn't.
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You know, like that.
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Right, yeah, no, that's actually really huge.
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I've been training Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu for the last 12 years and I've done a few competitions early in my life and sometimes it can be intimidating, like when you see someone from a specific school has been trained by someone specifically, but at the end of the day you know they put their uniform on just like you did, and having that confidence in yourself is huge when it comes to that.
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You know, since you've been off the gridiron, I noticed that you've been on social media quite a bit on Instagram, talking about motivation, mindset and growth.
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What would you say overall, has been your drive to keep you going when you're not 100%?
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I would say remembering everything that you've been through and also knowing why you're doing what you're doing.
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Because if you've anything that you've gone through in life, you didn't go through it for no reason.
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It doesn't matter what it is, even the most negative things, those stuff that you went through as a kid, that you didn't realize why until probably like three years later of the world, and end up not being the end of the world.
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And you learn from it and you're just like you know.
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You always look back and you're like I can't believe I used to think like that.
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I can't believe I used to say stuff like that, like I can't believe I used to wear clothes like that, like what was I doing wearing those clothes three years ago?
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But it's all for a purpose.
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So the older you get, I mean people tend to forget that going against them, they don't know what to do and they're just panicking.
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And you just have to realize, you know, just really sitting back and realizing like I didn't go through everything I went through for no reason, I didn't learn everything that I learned for no reason, and just knowing that there's a reason behind it.
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Yeah, that's absolutely huge man.
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A lot of people would call that like failing forward.
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Sometimes, if you fail at something, at least take a lesson out of it and keep going.
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I can tell you that I would imagine it's the same for you when I joined the military and I deployed to Operation Iraqi Freedom in 2004,.
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Just in that one year I was deployed I grew up and became a man.
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Do you think that college athletics, especially like playing at your level, helped you grow up and mature faster and learn more life lessons than probably the average college student did?
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For sure I would say it has its perks.
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So I would say it's like 50-50.
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It for sure did.
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But there's also a side you're missing, because the football side is a business.
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So, like me and my friends in college, we used to always talk about the different ideas we have, like we want to own our own company, we want to do this X, y, z.
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You see videos about real estate, you want to do all these different things, but you don't actually have the time to go out there and make all the mistakes.
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That's going to happen regardless.
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If you have the best mentor in the world, you're still going to have to make some of those mistakes and go through it to be able to actually understand and how to build.
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Versus when you're playing football, you're so time consumed with it that a lot of it is just soak up as much knowledge as you can.
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But once you're done playing and everything, that's where guys tend to actually be able to go act on it and find out, see what they're good at, see what they don't like, see how different it is from what they actually thought it would be.
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So but like while you're playing, it's pretty tough.
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Besides, like consuming knowledge, I would say consume as much knowledge as you can and if you could find time to act on it, act on it.
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But for most guys they can't really find that out till they're finished.
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Would you say that networking during your time as a collegiate athlete is absolutely necessary and important?
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I know I've learned it as an adult in my profession how important networking is.
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Would you say, would you give that advice to folks or to athletes that are in there right now that are currently playing to make sure that you network.
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You never know where you're going to end up.
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One million percent.
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That's one of the most important things that you could do, and it's crazy because people will tell you that all the time, but a lot of people don't know what it looks like.
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A lot of people will say go get a mentor, but what does that actually look like?
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Like I, people would say that all the time, like you need to get a mentor.
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I actually did.
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Like what does that actually mean, though?
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Like what does that mean?
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I watch videos on YouTube.
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Like what does it actually mean?
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So I would say, like understanding what it actually means to network, like you're not just talking to try to get free stuff, like you're, like you actually want to build, like a real connection with somebody, and they could come back and help you in ways that you never even knew of or thought of.
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I would say it's so important.
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It's so important that will open a lot of doors for you that your degree won't just simply by knowing somebody, and they know what type of person you are.
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Right, like finding common values with other folks that may be in positions of profession that you might see yourself in someday, possibly social media.
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Like I don't even know if you can, but if I can go back in time, I would be, you know, going to UCLA, being around a real estate empire just in Los Angeles.
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I would be tweeting out like, hey, is there any real estate developers out here who, like you, know, whatever, I'll train your kids for free.
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I'll be doing stuff like that if I can go back in time.
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But especially in LA, they have such a great opportunity that they need to utilize it, because you're going to start to look back like when you finish and I even utilize it a lot.
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But like looking back now that I'm done, there's a lot of things that I wish I can.
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I wish I would have gone back and done a little bit differently as far as, like the networking goes, and like I would really try to leverage it a little bit more.
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You mentioned about the mentoring thing earlier.
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We talked before we started recording and you you mentioned that you're reaching back, trying to help out collegiate athletes to make better decisions, right, more or less.
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Are you looking to get into that, into that role as maybe a collegiate athletics mentor?
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yeah, for sure.
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I I've seen a lot of crazy stuff go on in college and also meeting a lot of people from different backgrounds.
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A lot of people's way of thinking is not the same.
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Stuff that you may think is common sense, somebody may think that's normal.
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It's really like politics You're either on this side or you're on this side and everybody thinks they're right.
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Once you get to college and you start stuff that's common sense to you, a lot of people it's not common sense to them.