Guard Your Circle: Lessons from the Parade Deck Controversy

Authenticity matters. When controversy erupted around Parade Deck—a platform connecting military podcasters and influencers—it forced our community to confront tough questions about who we choose to align with and why.

I've deliberately kept Morning Formation Podcast independent for years, despite invitations to join larger collectives. My reasoning is simple: alignment of values cannot be compromised. The only organization I've partnered with is Act Now Education, where I serve as a board member after witnessing their genuine commitment to service under Jay Salters' leadership.

What we're seeing unfold is a reflection of a broader tension within military content creation—the battle between community focus and personal brand building. While ambition isn't inherently negative, authenticity evaporates when mission statements about service become hollow marketing tactics. Some of the most legitimate military heroes have never touched social media, while certain loud voices online have built empires on superficial metrics that inevitably plateau.

I've avoided military podcast awards after discovering they often feel more like popularity contests than meaningful recognition. True legitimacy isn't conferred by trophies or networking; it's earned through consistent service, unwavering integrity, and measurable impact. When platforms gather dozens of content creators under one umbrella without proper vetting, values become diluted and missions confused.

The takeaway? Guard your circle carefully. Be intentional about who you stand with. Your affiliations reflect your priorities, and in this community, service should always outweigh self-promotion. Don't confuse looking important with being important. A life dedicated to serving others creates meaning, longevity, and respect that no amount of followers or flashy editing can match.

What voices are you amplifying? What values are you upholding? These questions matter more than ever as we navigate the evolving landscape of military influence and storytelling.